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“Have you ever wondered what it’s like to live in a culture untouched by modernity? Join me as I recount my transformative journey among the Koma people—a tribe that taught me the true meaning of community, simplicity, and faith.” Adeleye M Oni Table of Contents The Journey To Koma Hills I still remember the day missionaries visited our school fellowship during my secondary school days. The sun beat down on the rusty corrugated iron roof of our auditorium, casting a warm glow over the rows of curious students. It was amidst this familiar backdrop that I first heard the stories of the Koma people. During one such visit, we heard stories about a people group in Koma Hills, Adamawa State, Nigeria, who still practiced nudity in a world increasingly shaped by modernity. This unusual practice fascinated me. What I found particularly intriguing was how the Koma people could thrive in a world so vastly different from my own, where the comforts and familiarity of modern life were nowhere to be found. The missionaries shared stories about the Koma people’s unique way of life, . What I found particularly intriguing was how the Koma people could thrive in a world so vastly different from my own, where the comforts and familiarity of modern life were nowhere to be found. Adeleye M Oni The seed planted in my heart during those secondary school days lay dormant for years, until it was rekindled at a youth camp. It was there that I stumbled upon a circular inviting volunteers for a one-month mission trip to Koma Hills. As soon as I saw it, As I read the circular, a shiver ran down my spine. It was as if the stories I had heard years ago came flooding back, and I felt an inexplicable sense of connection to this mysterious place and its people. My heart racing with anticipation, I knew I had to be a part of this journey. Here was the opportunity to meet the very people whose stories had lingered in my mind all those years ago. Driven by a sense of purpose and insatiable curiosity, I signed up for the trip, eager to experience the Koma people’s way of life firsthand and gain a deeper understanding of their culture beyond the stories I had heard. As we prepared for the trip, our team went through weeks of prayer and fasting, seeking spiritual and physical readiness for the journey. We had the medical and teaching team. I was assigned to the teaching team, which meant that I would spend much of my time interacting with the Koma people, sharing teachings and preaching. As I contemplated my role on the teaching team, a mix of emotions swirled within me. I felt a thrill of anticipation, knowing that I would be sharing teachings and preaching to the Koma people. At the same time, a sense of duty settled upon me, reminding me of the weight of responsibility that came with this opportunity. . Chapter 3: Arrival and First Impressions We took off from Minna, the capital of Niger State, Nigeria, to Yola, the capital of Adamawa State, Nigeria. The trip lasted for two days. Then from Yola to Koma Hills took us another three days’ journey. We crossed a total of ten rivers. The journey to Koma Hills was physically demanding, taking us several days through rugged terrain and crossing numerous rivers, but every challenge along the way felt like part of the mission. The journey was grueling, and there were times when I felt like giving up. But my passion for sharing the Gospel and experiencing new cultures kept me going. Even when we encountered deadly snakes, I persevered, knowing that this experience was worth the challenges. True to it by the time we reached Koma Hills, I knew this was more than just a trip—it was an experience that would challenge and shape me. Our Arrival After days of traveling through rugged terrain, we finally arrived at Koma Hills late in the evening. As we highlighted from the motorcycle that brought us, the wind howled, blowing away the mission camp. We quickly sprang into action, setting up a makeshift shelter to protect ourselves from the elements. Although I was tired, it reminded me of how the patriarchs of faith were said to set up tents as they sojourned during their time. The many teachings I was taught when I was in Sunday School about being pilgrims on earth came rushing back. Customarily, when I arrive at a new place, I can’t sleep; it takes a while to acclimatize. But as I was thoroughly tired, I slept off. As I emerged from my tent at 3 AM, I saw figures standing on the cliff, their silhouettes illuminated by the flickering flames of a fire that crackled and spat in the darkness. The fire cast a warm, golden glow on the surrounding rocks, and the smell of wood smoke and damp earth wafted through the air, transporting me to a place both familiar and unknown. They stood vigilant, their eyes scanning the horizon. I later learned that these were the soldiers who kept watch over the community, ever ready to defend against potential threats. This reminded me of the watchmen in the books of Isaiah and Jeremiah. It also reminded me of the five wise virgins who had their lamps burning, emphasizing the importance of vigilance. I saw figures standing on the cliff, their silhouettes illuminated by the flickering flames of a fire that crackled and spat in the darkness. Adeleye M Oni Chapter 4: The History, Culture, and Traditions of the Koma People The Koma people’s unique culture and traditions are a fascinating aspect of their identity. To truly understand this enigmatic tribe, it’s essential to delve into their rich cultural heritage. The Koma people are an indigenous hill-dwelling ethnic group residing in the Alantika Mountains of northern Adamawa State, Nigeria, and in Northern Cameroon. Their official discovery in 1986 by a

Project 2 Caring for Others: A Journey of Growth and Transformation Introduction: The Heart of Caregiving Overview: Highlight the timeless and universal act of caregiving, emphasizing its presence in history, religious traditions, and contemporary society. Caregiving is a timeless act central to human societies throughout history. In medieval times, religious institutions often carried out caregiving, where monks and nuns provided shelter, healing, and compassion to the sick and needy. The Bible, too, offers profound examples of caregiving, such as the story of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37), which highlights the call to care for others regardless of personal cost. These narratives show that caregiving is about meeting physical needs and embodying love, mercy, and empathy. In contemporary society, caregiving has taken on diverse forms, from professional roles in healthcare to informal acts of support among friends and family. While the contexts have changed, the essence of caregiving remains the same—a deep connection to our shared humanity. It is an act that transcends cultural, temporal, and social barriers, reminding us of our interdependence. From a leadership perspective, caregiving is more than a personal virtue; it is an essential skill. Effective leaders recognize the importance of emotional intelligence, empathy, and the ability to support others through difficult times. Leadership is not just about guiding people toward goals; it is also about being present in moments of vulnerability and providing a foundation of trust and encouragement. As Desmond Tutu’s Ubuntu philosophy teaches, “My humanity is bound up in yours.” Leaders who embrace caregiving embody this interconnectedness, creating environments where individuals feel valued, supported, and empowered. This project explores caregiving through a personal narrative of supporting my friend Michael during profound heartbreak and loss. It reflects on the lessons learned, the personal growth I experienced, and how caregiving has influenced my approach as a leader and collaborator. Medieval Monks And Nuns Offering Care The Role of the Church in Caregiving The church has historically been a pillar of caregiving in society, offering holistic support that addresses physical, emotional, and spiritual needs. Rooted in Christ’s teaching to “love your neighbor as yourself” (Mark 12:31), the church’s caregiving mission spans centuries and continues to evolve to meet modern challenges. 1. Caregiving for the Broken and Emotionally Depressed Churches often provide emotional healing through pastoral care, prayer groups, and spiritual mentorship. o  Statistics: According to studies, nearly 40% of people in emotional distress seek help from a pastor or church leader before considering professional therapy. o  Example: Programs like Celebrate Recovery, a Christ-centered recovery group, have reached millions worldwide, providing emotional and spiritual support to individuals battling depression, addiction, or past traumas. . 2. Counseling Services 3. Bereavement Care o  Impact: Studies show that individuals involved in church-based bereavement programs report higher emotional and spiritual resilience levels. o  Example: Programs like GriefShare, a global church-based grief support group, have helped millions navigate loss. 4. Aid to the Homeless o  Statistics: A 2023 National Faith-Based Housing Network survey found that over 60% of church programs directly assist homeless individuals through food drives, shelter operations, or employment training. o  Example: The Catholic Church’s St. Vincent de Paul Society and Protestant initiatives like Room in the Inn are models of effective homeless outreach. 5. Feeding the Hungry and Providing Material Aid o  Impact: Data from Bread for the World indicates that faith-based organizations provide over 40% of the food aid distributed in the U.S. annually. o  Example: Soup kitchens, food pantries, and seasonal donation drives (e.g., Operation Christmas Child) exemplify this work. Churches also extend aid globally through initiatives like World Vision or Samaritan’s Purse. 6. Other Acts of Caregiving Contemporary Figures Who Shaped My Understanding of Caregiving In addition to the biblical and philosophical perspectives, my journey of caregiving and being cared for has been profoundly shaped by the actions of contemporary figures. Through their acts of selflessness, empathy, and dedication, these individuals have profoundly influenced my understanding of caregiving. Three individuals stand out, including my mother, whose caregiving has had a lasting impact on my life. 1. My Mother: The Foundation of Care The most significant influence on my understanding of caregiving has been my mother. I witnessed her unwavering commitment to caring for those around her from a young age. Whether tending to our family’s needs, offering a listening ear to friends, or helping those in her community, my mother demonstrated a deep, unconditional love and support that shaped my approach to care. Her ability to balance empathy with practical backing taught me that caregiving is not just about meeting someone’s immediate needs but also about being a source of emotional stability and resilience. My mother’s caregiving was not limited to our family; it extended to the broader community. I recall how she would take time to visit neighbors who were ill, provide food for older people, or sit with those grieving. Her caregiving approach was holistic, focusing on the emotional, spiritual, and physical well-being of others. This comprehensive approach is something I strive to emulate in my caregiving practices today. Details: Her holistic approach to caregiving and the emotional stability she provided 2. Michael: The Power of Compassionate Friendship Michael, my dear friend, also significantly shaped my understanding of caregiving, though in a different capacity. When he went through a devastating heartbreak and emotional collapse, I had the opportunity to care for him during one of the most challenging times in his life. His experience of profound loss and grief revealed to me the importance of simply being present. In his darkest moments, what he needed most was not someone to solve his problems but someone who would stand by him, offering empathy and encouragement. Through this experience, I learned that caregiving often provides a safe space for people to process their emotions rather than offering quick fixes or solutions. Michael’s vulnerability and openness to care deeply impacted me, teaching me the value of emotional presence in caregiving. It became clear that the most effective way to care for others is to show up with

Project 1: Receiving Care Introduction: The Lifeline of Care Care is a universal experience that binds humanity together through acts of kindness, understanding, and selflessness. As the psychologist Carl Rogers once said, “The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.” Care is about physical help and acknowledging vulnerability in ourselves and others, which fosters transformation. The art of receiving care can be uncomfortable in a culture that prioritizes individual achievement and independence. Yet, research suggests that moments of vulnerability often lead to profound growth. As Brene Brown emphasizes, vulnerability is not a weakness but a courageous act that allows us to connect with others and ourselves. My experience of receiving care during a time of physical and emotional upheaval taught me about the importance of emotional presence and empathy. These elements transformed moments of suffering into opportunities for growth. The Story: A Time When I Was Cared For A Season of Uncertainty The experience of being physically incapacitated, losing my job, and grappling with a serious diagnosis encapsulated much of the research on personal crises. The American Psychological Association notes that compounding stressors—like physical injury and job loss—can significantly impact mental health. In my case, my sister Zama stepped in, not only physically caring for me but also offering emotional and spiritual support. Her empathy demonstrated what scholars like Robert Wicks describe as the importance of emotional resonance in caregiving. Moments of Compassionate Care One of the most memorable evenings was when Zama sat with me after a devastating diagnosis. She embodied what research calls “presence”—being physically and emotionally available without offering immediate solutions. Her touch during painful procedures activated feelings of safety and belonging, aligning with studies showing how physical touch fosters emotional healing. Her prayers, belief in miracles, and spiritual support also aligned with findings that spirituality can profoundly impact recovery. Lessons on the Art of Caring . Suggested Image: A tranquil nature setting, symbolizing mindfulness and presence. Growth in Self-Care Conclusion: The Ripple Effect of Care The care I received during this challenging period reshaped my understanding of compassion, resilience, and caregiving. It showed me that care isn’t about fixing problems—it’s about walking alongside someone, offering empathy and solidarity. The lessons I’ve carried forward about empathy, presence, and empowerment continue to guide my interactions. Care transforms both the giver and receiver, and it is in these shared moments of humanity that we truly learn how to care for others and ourselves.

Table of Contents 1. Introduction Mentoring is vital to Christian discipleship, where both mentor and mentee experience profound spiritual growth. This reflective exploration delves into my journey as a mentor, where I seek to combine academic understanding, theological insights, and personal experience. Mentoring is not simply an act of instruction but an ongoing relational exchange that nurtures spiritual maturity, transformation, and the development of Christ-like character. Through formal and informal mentoring experiences, I have understood that proper mentorship is reciprocal—it fosters both guidance and mutual growth. In this paper, I reflect on the practical aspects of mentoring, considering the biblical basis for mentoring relationships and how they have shaped my spiritual life and those I mentor. Drawing upon personal stories and theological reflection, I will explore the challenges, rewards, and long-term impact of mentoring within the Christian context. 2. Literature Review Mentorship has long been recognized as an essential practice for spiritual development within the Christian tradition. Kraft (2015) argues that mentoring is foundational for spiritual direction, not merely as an act of teaching but as a process of personal transformation, where mutual trust and wisdom exchange play a central role. This aligns with my own experiences, where I have seen that mentoring must prioritize deep relational trust, understanding, and vulnerability. Effective mentors must embody Christ-like love, modeling humility and servant leadership. Further, McDonald (2017) emphasizes the communal aspects of mentoring, noting that it fosters a sense of belonging and mutual accountability within the body of Christ. I have lived out this truth in my mentoring relationships, as mutual vulnerability leads not only to spiritual growth but also to deeper community connections. The concept of peer discipleship, where both mentor and mentee learn from one another, speaks to the dynamic nature of mentoring. It is a shared journey of growth that enriches both the mentee and mentor. Additional scholars, such as White (2019), stress the theological and ecclesial importance of mentorship as a tool for leadership development. Mentorship serves as a critical vehicle for disciplining future leaders who can carry forward the vision of the Church and foster spiritual vitality within communities. This aligns with my approach to mentorship, where I actively aim to develop leaders who, in turn, mentor others. The literature surrounding the emotional intelligence required in mentoring underscores the importance of empathy, active listening, and humility. As mentors, we are called to recognize the emotional and spiritual needs of others, as demonstrated in Jesus Christ’s mentorship model. Christ showed incredible patience, empathy, and care in His relationships with His disciples. 3. Personal Narrative Reflecting on my spiritual formation, I recognize that mentorship was pivotal in my journey toward maturity. During my university years, I was mentored by Pastor Okwe and Sister Ngozi, who embodied the virtues of Christ’s love. Their mentorship deepened my knowledge of Scripture and helped me navigate the complexities of life and faith. They guided the church community during academic pressures, personal struggles, and challenges. Through their intentional mentoring, I understood the deeper relational aspect of faith—not just intellectual ascent but heartfelt transformation. Their example shaped my desire to mentor others, passing on the same wisdom and care I had received. I recognize that the best mentors are those who have been mentored themselves, and my experience as a mentee laid the foundation for my future role as a mentor. 4. Mentoring Experiences 4.1 Formal Mentoring In my formal roles as a University Fellowship Leader and a Church Youth Leader, I have gained significant experience mentoring groups and individuals. As a University Fellowship Leader, I facilitated Bible studies and prayer meetings, which allowed me to model Christ-like leadership, mainly focusing on humility and servant-heartedness. I guided my group through structured meetings in discussing Scripture, fostering a deeper understanding of their spiritual gifts and calling. In my role as a Church Youth Leader, I not only mentored youth but also equipped volunteer leaders. This role taught me the importance of developing other leaders who can, in turn, mentor others, thus expanding the impact of mentorship within the church. Creating a culture of leadership empowerment taught me that mentoring is not about holding power but about multiplying it by equipping others. 4.2 Informal Mentoring Informal mentoring, through peer discipleship and community outreach, has proven to be just as impactful as formal settings. I regularly meet with close friends for discipleship, where we engage deeply with Scripture, share testimonies, and offer mutual support. These relationships have shown me the importance of vulnerability in mentorship, where both mentor and mentee benefit from the exchange. In my community outreach, I mentor individuals from diverse backgrounds, helping them live out their faith practically. I often see some of the most profound transformations in these informal settings, as they allow for mentoring in real-life contexts, showing how faith applies to everyday challenges. 5. A Powerful Mentoring Story: Mr. Yadoo Tersue One of the most profound stories of transformation I have experienced through mentoring is with Mr. Tersoo Tersue, whom I mentored after he responded to the altar call during a fellowship moment. At the time, Mr. Tersue was struggling with a lifestyle of alcohol, smoking, and womanizing, habits that seemed to have a firm grip on him. Despite skepticism from others, I believed in the redemptive power of Christ and committed to walking alongside him. I increased the frequency of our meetings, offering spiritual guidance and emotional support. We prayed, fasted, and studied Scripture together. One night, Mr. Tersue shared a vivid dream in which I appeared to help him out of a drunken fall, a powerful metaphor for the breaking of his old life. This was a turning point. From that moment, he left his old habits behind, became active in church, and eventually became a pastor. His transformation remains a testament to the power of consistent discipleship and God’s work in a person’s life. 6. Whom I Am Mentoring I mentor three individuals: Jecinta Eze, a university student exploring the intersection of faith and academia; David, a young

Others Shaping You: A Reflective Exploration of Christian Community and Its Impact on My Life and Vocational Direction Mentored Life Table of Contents Chapter 1: Introduction1.1 Overview of the Project1.2 Purpose and Significance1.3 Structure of the Project Chapter 2: Background and Context2.1 Growing Up in Northern Nigeria2.2 The Influence of Family and Faith2.3 The Christian Minority Experience Chapter 3: Literature Review3.1 The Role of the Christian Community in Spiritual Growth3.2 The Power of Mentorship in Faith Development3.3 Leadership in the Christian Context Chapter 4: Personal Narrative4.1 The Religious Riot: A Defining Moment4.2 The Impact of Crisis on Faith and Calling4.3 University Years: Growth through Fellowship Chapter 5: Key Influencers5.1 Pastor John: Lessons in Servant Leadership5.2 Dietrich Bonhoeffer: The Cost of Discipleship5.3 Corrie ten Boom: A Testimony of Grace and Resilience Chapter 6: Challenges and Resilience6.1 The Struggles of Being a Christian Minority6.2 Strength Through Community in Times of Persecution6.3 Building Resilience in the Face of Adversity Chapter 7: Reflection and Analysis7.1 Deepening My Understanding of God’s Love7.2 Shaping My Vocational Direction7.3 Resilience: Lessons Learned from Adversity Chapter 8: Conclusion8.1 Summary of Key Insights8.2 The Ongoing Influence of Christian Community on My Life Chapter 9: Recommendations9.1 Fostering Mentorship Programs9.2 Creating Inclusive and Supportive Community Environments9.3 Developing Leadership Opportunities for Young Believers Appendices10.1 Personal Prayer10.2 Submission Declaration Chapter 1: Introduction 1.1 Overview of the ProjectThis project reflects on how Christian community, mentorship, and pivotal life experiences have shaped my relationship with God and influenced my vocational calling. Growing up in northern Nigeria as a Christian minority, I experienced both the challenges and transformative power of being part of a faith community. The church, mentorship from spiritual leaders, and critical moments in my life have collectively guided me in understanding my purpose in life and how I can contribute to society in service to others. 1.2 Purpose and SignificanceThis project offers a reflective exploration of how my Christian community shaped my spiritual growth and vocational direction. By analyzing personal experiences and academic literature, I aim to understand the profound impact of faith, mentorship, and communal support on shaping one’s life purpose. 1.3 Structure of the ProjectThis project is divided into several chapters. The first provides a background of my experiences in northern Nigeria, followed by a literature review on the role of community and mentorship. The core chapters reflect on significant personal experiences, critical influencers in my life, challenges I’ve faced, and how resilience and perseverance have shaped my vocational journey. Chapter 2: Background and Context 2.1 Growing Up in Northern NigeriaBorn and raised in Middle Belt Nigeria, I grew up as part of a Christian minority in a predominantly Muslim region. This context shaped my worldview and how I practiced and defended my faith. Growing up in a Christian home, my family became the first place where I learned the importance of prayer, scripture, and service to others. 2.2 The Influence of Family and FaithMy parents instilled in me the values of humility, love, and service from an early age. Despite facing societal pressures as Christians in a Muslim-majority environment, their unwavering faith became a source of strength and encouragement, shaping my understanding of what it means to live out one’s faith in public and private spheres. 2.3 The Christian Minority ExperienceBeing a minority in middle Belt Nigeria was not always easy, and there were moments when I felt isolated or pressured to conform. However, these challenges provided a backdrop for understanding the Christian community’s importance in offering spiritual and emotional support. Chapter 3: Literature Review 3.1 The Role of the Christian Community in Spiritual GrowthDrawing from McDonald’s (2017) work on the importance of Christian fellowship, I explore how community plays a crucial role in cultivating a deeper relationship with God. For me, the Christian community served as both a support system and a training ground for spiritual growth, especially during times of trial. 3.2 The Power of Mentorship in Faith DevelopmentKraft (2015) discusses the transformative power of mentorship in spiritual development. Reflecting on my experiences with mentors like Pastor Arome and Sister Ngozi, I examine how their guidance helped me overcome personal struggles and discern my calling. They provided both wisdom and the space for me to develop spiritually and vocationally. 3.3 Leadership in the Christian ContextMcDonald (2017) also discusses how the Christian community equips individuals for leadership. My leadership experience in church activities, including evangelistic missions like the Reinhard Bonnke crusade, deepened my understanding of servant leadership. This concept would later influence my vocational choices, where I began to see leadership not as a position of power but as a form of service to others. Chapter 4: Personal Narrative 4.1 The Religious Riot: A Defining MomentOne of the most pivotal moments in my life was during the religious riot in northern Nigeria. As churches were burned and Christians faced violence, I witnessed the strength of the Christian community as they came together to pray, support each other, and affirm their faith. This experience profoundly shaped my relationship with God and affirmed my resolve to live for Him, regardless of the cost. 4.2 The Impact of Crisis on Faith and CallingMy faith was tested during this crisis in ways I had never imagined. But rather than shake my belief, it clarified my sense of calling. I realized that my faith wasn’t just about personal salvation and serving God’s purpose through service and leadership. 4.3 University Years: Growth through FellowshipIn university, I became actively involved in a Christian fellowship, where I found a vibrant community that encouraged my spiritual growth. This period marked a significant transformation in my faith as I began to understand the power of mentorship and the importance of being part of a faith community that nurtures personal and collective growth. Chapter 5: Key Influencers 5.1 Pastor John: Lessons in Servant LeadershipPastor John’s mentorship taught me invaluable lessons about leadership through service. His example of humility, selflessness, and care for others profoundly impacted me, shaping my understanding of leadership as an act of service, not authority. 5.2 Dietrich

Project Title II Encouraging Others to Do the Right Thing: A Path to Ethical Excellence Table of Contents: Introduction Effective leadership extends beyond personal integrity; it demands inspiring and empowering others to embody the same values. In today’s complex world, where ethical ambiguities and moral dilemmas are increasingly prevalent, the role of individuals who foster a culture of integrity becomes paramount. As someone who has navigated the challenges of promoting ethical conduct, I can attest to the transformative power of encouraging others to do the right thing. My experience in college catalyzed this realization. A senior colleague’s reckless handling of students’ information and documentation,  which led to incorrect grades, exposed a startling lapse in ethical judgment and principles. Despite acknowledging the mistake, the colleague’s reluctance to correct their actions highlighted the need for vigilant advocacy. In this pivotal moment, I have crystallized my understanding of encouraging others to uphold ethical standards, even in adversity. The gravity of this situation underscored several key insights: This experience sparked a deeper exploration of the significance of encouraging others to do the right thing. Through this reflection, I aim to: Questions for Consideration: Chapter One: The Dwindling of Ethical Excellence in the 21st Century The 21st century has witnessed unprecedented technological advancements, globalization, and societal progress. However, this era has also seen a disturbing decline in ethical standards across various sectors. The dwindling of ethical excellence has far-reaching implications, affecting individuals, organizations, and communities worldwide. Statistics and Studies: Factors Contributing to Ethical Decline: Consequences of Ethical Decline: Call  To Action Reversing the decline of ethical excellence requires individual and collective responsibility. We must recognize the importance of moral conduct, address underlying factors, and promote a culture of integrity. Reflection Questions: Theological Reflection: The decline in ethical standards is a profound reminder that the root of ethical failure is spiritual. The sin of Adam and Eve (Genesis 3) introduced the corruption of moral reasoning, as humanity chose to define good and evil apart from God. Throughout Scripture, the prophets warn of the consequences of abandoning God’s moral law (Jeremiah 7:23-28). Jesus Himself calls us to righteousness that surpasses mere external observance (Matthew 5:20). The Church must respond by modeling the righteousness of Christ and calling individuals and communities to repentance and moral restoration through the Gospel (Romans 3:21-26). We can restore ethical excellence and rebuild trust in our institutions through spiritual renewal. Chapter Two: Forces Against Ethical Excellence Identifying and understanding the forces opposing ethical excellence is crucial for developing effective strategies to promote integrity. This chapter examines the internal, external, and systemic forces that hinder ethical excellence. Internal Forces: External Forces: Systemic Forces: Interplay Between Forces:These forces interact and reinforce one another, creating complex challenges. Consequences of Unaddressed Forces:Failing to confront these forces has severe consequences: Reflection Questions: Theological Reflection: The forces that work against internal and external ethical excellence reflect the world’s brokenness after the Fall (Genesis 3). Jesus’ call to deny ourselves, take up our crosses, and follow Him (Matthew 16:24) points to the reality that ethical excellence requires a radical departure from self-centeredness and submission to God’s will. The spiritual forces of sin and temptation (Ephesians 6:12) continually seek to undermine moral integrity. Yet, the Holy Spirit empowers believers to resist these forces and live according to the higher call of holiness (1 Peter 1:15-16). We must also recognize that ethical challenges are not merely individual struggles but part of a more significant cosmic conflict between God’s Kingdom and the powers of darkness (Colossians 1:13). Chapter Three: The Importance of Doing the Right Thing Choosing to do the right thing has far-reaching benefits. It’s not just about personal morality; it directly influences relationships, communities, and institutions. Theological Reflection: The biblical call to do the right thing finds its foundation in the character of God. In Scripture, God is portrayed as the ultimate standard of righteousness (Psalm 11:7). He is just. He calls His people to reflect His holiness in the world (1 Peter 1:16). Jesus, in His earthly ministry, exemplified perfect ethical behavior, choosing to do the right thing even at high personal cost (Luke 22:42). The Gospel calls believers to live in a manner worthy of the calling they have received (Ephesians 4:1), embodying integrity, humility, and justice as they follow Christ’s example. Thus, doing the right thing is morally good and an act of worship, as we reflect the image of our Creator and Savior. Chapter Four: The Necessity of Guidance Ethical behavior doesn’t emerge spontaneously; it requires intentional guidance and the development of strong moral frameworks. This chapter explores the role of guidance in cultivating ethical behavior and the importance of providing clear direction for others to follow the path of righteousness. 1. The Role of Mentorship and Leadership Ethical excellence thrives under the guidance of strong leaders who model integrity and impart wisdom. Leaders have a profound influence on the ethical standards of those they lead. They shape the culture of organizations and communities, either positively or negatively. Therefore, mentors and leaders should: 2. Formal Guidance Systems In institutions or workplaces, formal guidance systems are essential for promoting ethical conduct. These can include: 3. The Influence of Religious and Philosophical Frameworks Ethical guidance can also come from established religious or philosophical frameworks. These frameworks offer structured beliefs and guidelines that shape moral decisions. For Christians, the Bible provides a rich source of ethical principles that guide behavior in every situation. 4. The Importance of Community and Accountability Ethical behavior is often strengthened by the support of a community. Accountability within a community helps individuals adhere to their ethical commitments. Whether it’s through small groups, work teams, or social circles, knowing that others are holding you to a standard encourages moral behavior. Accountability mechanisms, such as regular check-ins, peer reviews, or group discussions, ensure that individuals remain aligned with ethical expectations. 5. Overcoming the Challenges to Ethical Guidance Despite its importance, providing ethical guidance comes with challenges. These include: To overcome these challenges, leaders and mentors must

Project 1: Doing the Right Thing Standing Up for Integrity: A Leadership Journey Introduction: Life is often described as a “spark,” a small yet powerful force that ignites the potential within us. For many of us, that spark comes to life through defining moments that shape who we become. This spark came through witnessing leadership failure, precisely the scandals in my community that undermined trust and eroded integrity. From a young age, I saw leaders whom I personally looked up to fall short of their ethical responsibilities. There was a time when a deacon was caught stealing from church offerings, and a pastor was found to have impregnated a choir member. These instances shook me to my core, making me fear leadership and its potential for corruption. As a result, when I was nominated to be the head boy of my high school, I declined. I believed leadership was a “pot of death” that could destroy one’s integrity. However, as I grew in my faith and encountered scriptures such as Isaiah’s call, “Who will go for us?” and the insight that “bad leadership persists because good people shy away from leadership,” I realized that avoiding leadership was not the solution, despite my initial fear and doubt. If God called me to lead, I would strive to embody Christ-patterned leadership rooted in integrity. This decision began a journey that would test my values, shape my character, and transform my understanding of leadership. The Story: In one of my previous roles as a team leader, I confronted a difficult situation that would test my commitment to integrity. A trusted colleague had been falsifying data to meet performance targets. This wasn’t a minor oversight. It was a deliberate action that threatened our team’s reputation and our work’s integrity. I was at a crossroads: reporting the incident could result in severe consequences for my colleague, potentially fracture our team, and cost someone their job. To ignore it would be a betrayal of everything I valued. I prayed for guidance, wrestling with feelings of betrayal and fear. I feared the conflict and potential fallout. Ultimately, I chose the path of integrity. I approached my colleague privately, explaining the severity of the issue, and encouraged them to come forward. I clarified that I valued our relationship but could not disregard the ethical breach. After a tense conversation, my colleague admitted to the wrongdoing, and we reported the matter to management. Though the decision led to disciplinary action, it forced the team to rebuild trust, which, although painful, ultimately strengthened us. The Aftermath and Reflection: This experience was one of the hardest I’ve faced in my leadership journey. It tested my values and courage, and the emotional turmoil was intense. However, it left me with several profound lessons: This experience taught me that authentic leadership is about doing what’s right, even when difficult. It forced me to confront my fears of conflict and become a servant-leader who prioritizes the team’s well-being over personal comfort. Formation and Growth: The aftermath of that decision changed me in ways I never anticipated. It forged new convictions in me and reinforced core principles: Ultimately, I realized that leadership requires vision and integrity. I could no longer avoid tough conversations or ethical dilemmas for fear of conflict. That moment of decision helped me grow in courage and moral clarity. Principles, Values, and Virtues: This experience cemented several vital principles that now guide my leadership: Origin of These Values: These principles didn’t just materialize in a single moment. They were shaped over the years by various influences: Conclusion: This journey has shown me that leadership is not about avoiding difficult decisions or seeking personal comfort but about standing firm in our values, especially when it is hard. Authentic leadership is about doing what’s right, even at a cost. I’ve learned that the most challenging choices often lead to the most profound growth, both personally and within the teams we lead. I am committed to leading with integrity, guided by wisdom and compassion. I recognize that the path of righteousness isn’t always easy, but it is the only path that leads to lasting, meaningful impact. Reflection Questions: Sharing with Mentor Team: I am sharing this story with my mentor team as part of my commitment to growing in Christian ethics and leadership. Their feedback will be invaluable as I continue to develop and apply these principles more effectively in my leadership journey. I look forward to their guidance and insights as I refine my leadership approach with integrity.

In the quiet moments between worship services, I often reflect on the people with whom I share ministry. Each person brings something unique, and through their lives —whether by word or deed —I’ve learned profound lessons about life, faith, and love. What stands out to me is how these differences in personality and approach have been critical to my growth in faith and ministry. Take Brother Joel, for example. He is a man of unwavering conviction, but his patience and steadfastness continually astound me. I approach situations urgently, sometimes rushing to solve problems or provide answers. Brother Joel, on the other hand, waits. He believes in allowing situations to unfold, trusting that God’s timing is always better than ours. This has taught me the beauty of stillness in ministry, the need to listen longer, pray with patience and trust that not everything requires immediate action. His presence has slowed me down in the best way, teaching me that faith isn’t always about doing but often about being. Then there’s Sister Precious, whose name is more than fitting. Precious carries a warmth that lights up a room, and people are drawn to her effortlessly. Precious is an open book where I sometimes wrestle with vulnerability and openness, sharing her joys, fears, and struggles without hesitation. Her willingness to embrace her imperfections has shown me what love looks like in its most authentic form. She has taught me that love in ministry isn’t about having all the answers but offering a listening ear and a compassionate heart, even when we feel broken. Her transparency has helped me tear down walls within myself, reminding me that vulnerability breeds connection, not weakness. Brother Simeon, another dear companion in ministry, is a man of profound knowledge. Where I might focus on relational ministry, Simeon dives headfirst into faith’s intellectual and doctrinal aspects. His sharp mind and rigorous study challenge me to think deeper and push beyond the surface. Our discussions often lead me to question my assumptions and dig deeper into scripture. Simeon’s approach reminds me that ministry is also about the pursuit of truth and that loving God with all our minds is just as crucial as loving Him with our hearts. While I used to think of faith as primarily relational, He has expanded my view to see it as a delicate dance between heart, soul, and mind. Perhaps the most profound lesson I’ve learned is from Sister Deborah, who approaches life and ministry with a quiet, unspoken strength, unlike me. Deborah does not speak often in meetings or commands attention, but when she does speak, her words carry weight. I’ve always been more vocal and prone to express my thoughts and opinions. But Deborah has taught me that sometimes the most profound impact comes from a quiet presence, a listening heart, and well-timed words. She embodies the wisdom found in Proverbs 17:27: “The one who knows uses words with restraint, and whoever has understanding is even-tempered.” Esther’s quiet faith reminds me that leadership is not always loud but is sometimes found in the silence between words. These people, Joel, Precious, Simeon, and Deborah, are different from me. Yet, their influence has been transformative. Joel’s patience tempers my urgency. Precious’s vulnerability draws me out of my guardedness. Simeon’s intellect challenges my relational approach. Deborah’s quiet strength reminds me that there’s power in stillness. Each of these individuals has become a mirror, reflecting aspects of faith, life, and love that I needed to see but hadn’t known how to recognize within myself. Their influence is a testament to companions’ power in our personal growth. Through them, I’ve learned that ministry isn’t just about what I can give to others and what others give to me. Our differences—our personalities, strengths, and even weaknesses—are the very things that sharpen and refine us as we seek to walk more faithfully with God. These companions have shaped my understanding of what it means to serve, love, and lead, and I am grateful for how their lives continue to draw me closer to Christ. This story highlights how these individuals, with their distinct qualities, have influenced my growth in faith and ministry. Each offers lessons that complement my strengths and tendencies.

The Apostle Paul’s Story Apostle Paul’s story resonates with me because of his profound transformation from a persecutor of Christians to one of the most influential apostles. This radical change mirrors moments when I experienced a significant shift in perspective or purpose. “When I was a teenager, I was between thoughts of God and Challenge to be steadfast with his commandments; this was a tough time. Dedicating myself to God and facing the constant challenges of relapse was a continuous battle as I was unable to significantly understand the actual value of holding God versus the world. It took me a few years of mistakes to finally grow into the understanding and exact meaning of why I should never neglect the presence of God in my life. Paul’s dedication inspired me to persevere in my faith journey despite immense hardships. Why it Resonates: Paul’s relentless commitment to spreading the Gospel, even in the face of persecution, resonates with my desire to stand firm in my beliefs or to share my faith with others, regardless of obstacles. “Here is a quick story about myself—I recall when I was about 24 years old. Eager and excited to spread the gospel of Jesus Christ among young people, I was always happy to preach among friends and strangers alike in the University Chapel and beyond. While expressing my desire to explore the deep things of faith, I participated in Fasting and prayer sessions. I went into physical mounting areas to pray for hours, learning to connect with God and know him on a more personal level. I kept the tradition of reading the Bible to understand why I am a Christian, choosing Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior. Another distinct memory is that while in a youth gathering, I sought to find God even deeper and engaged myself in fasting and praying. One faithful evening, I felt God’s presence over me. I went looking for someone sick whom I could lay my hands upon. This move was faith, something I learned and practiced prayer from the life of apostle Paul; Paul’s faith in trusting God and the miracles God had used him to perform made me practice faith on a new level. The impact of this story is that the young lady eventually picked herself up and began to walk. To this day, I learned she has been doing well; the faith of the apostle Paul was remarkably a reason why I took on such high-level confidence in trusting God when it was most required. As I reflect on Paul’s life and writings, I am struck by his profoundly personal faith journey. His transformation on the road to Damascus speaks to the profound changes that can occur when encountering the divine. “In Galatians 2:20, Paul writes, ‘I have been crucified with Christ, and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me.’ This verse highlights Paul’s transformation and reflects a broader theological claim about the believer’s union with Christ. Here, Paul articulates the doctrine of participation, where individual faith is inextricably linked to Christ’s redemptive work on the cross.” Let us explore other parts of the church story. How the Story of Apostle Paul Invited You to Explore Other Parts of the Church’s Story Paul’s story leads me to delve deeper into the early Church’s history, understanding the first Christians’ challenges and how they overcame them. I will explore Paul’s letters in the New Testament, discovering the foundational teachings he provided to early Christian communities. This might encourage me to study other apostles or the development of Church doctrine. Paul’s letters in the New Testament are fundamental to understanding early Christian theology, ethics, and community life. His writings are central to the formation of Christian doctrine and practice. Let’s explore key themes from these letters, focusing on how Paul guided the early Christian communities: 1. Salvation by Grace through Faith (Romans, Galatians) 2. The Body of Christ and Unity (1 Corinthians, Ephesians) 3. Christ’s Supremacy and Lordship (Colossians, Philippians) 4. The Role of the Holy Spirit (Romans, Galatians) 5. Ethical and Moral Living (1 Thessalonians, 1 Corinthians) 6. The Resurrection and Hope (1 Corinthians 15, 1 Thessalonians 4) 7. Christian Freedom and Responsibility (Galatians, 1 Corinthians) 8. Suffering and Perseverance (2 Corinthians, Philippians) 9. Leadership and Church Structure (1 Timothy, Titus) How This Story of the Church Has Influenced You in Your Own Life and Service It has inspired me to engage in service by teaching and mentoring others in their faith, as Paul did with his letters and travels. His example of building and nurturing Christian communities has encouraged me to be more active in my local church faith community. How the Church’s Story Helps You to Help Others Guidance and Encouragement: The Church’s story, primarily through figures like Paul, has encouraged me to help others grow in their faith. Paul’s emphasis on love, forgiveness, and community-building has influenced how I approach helping others, offering them material support, spiritual guidance, and emotional encouragement. By understanding Paul’s missionary zeal and his dedication to reaching out to others, I have been inspired to extend outreach efforts through evangelism, service projects, or simply being a supportive presence in someone’s life. Biblical Text References Salvation by Grace through Faith: Ephesians 2:8-9, Romans 3:21-26 Unity in the Body of Christ: 1 Corinthians 12:12, Ephesians 4:4-6 The Role of the Holy Spirit: Romans 8:14 Justification by Faith: Romans 5:1 Christian Ethics and New Life: Colossians 3:12, Galatians 5:22-23 The Cross and Resurrection: 1 Corinthians 15:17 Eschatology and the Return of Christ: 1 Thessalonians 4:16-17 The Role of the Church: Ephesians 4:11-12 · “Paul: Apostle of the Heart Set Free” by F. F. Bruce (A comprehensive study of Paul’s life and letters) · “The Theology of Paul the Apostle” by James D. G. Dunn (Explores Paul’s theology in depth

Write out how you came to be affiliated with the faith community or communities you call home. It should include at least the following element: How your faith community has formed you for the better. Reflecting on my journey of faith and affiliation with the communities I call home is a meaningful way to understand how my spiritual life has been shaped. My Journey of Faith and Community My journey into the faith community I now call home began in a small, vibrant church in my hometown in the early 90s. My grandparents introduced me to our congregation’s “worship, prayer, and fellowship rhythms” from an early age. It was a community marked by warmth and a deep sense of belonging, where faith wasn’t just a belief system but a way of life that permeated every aspect of our existence. Discovering Faith Through Community As I grew, my understanding of faith evolved, influenced profoundly by the relationships I formed within the church. Sunday school teachers, pastors, and fellow congregants nurtured my spiritual growth. They modeled a life of faith that was not only rooted in Scripture but also expressed through acts of service, compassion, and love. Their example taught me that faith is lived out within a community. Where we support and challenge each other to grow closer to God. 1. Personal Experiences 2. Ecumenical and Interfaith Dialogue A Season of Searching In my teenage years, I experienced a season of questioning and searching. I explored different denominations and worship styles, attending various services, from the liturgical richness of the Catholic Church to the expressive worship of Pentecostal congregations. This exploration allowed me to appreciate the diverse ways Christians experience and express their faith. However, it also deepened my longing for a community where I could fully engage with my questions and doubts while grounded in a tradition that felt like home. 1. Community Service and Social Justice 2. Spiritual Practices Finding My Faith Community Eventually, I found my way back to a community that combined what I had experienced elsewhere: a deep commitment to Scripture, a vibrant worship life, and a strong emphasis on community and service. This church embraced the intellectual and emotional aspects of faith, providing a space where I could grow in understanding while engaging in heartfelt worship and meaningful relationships. Deep and fervent prayers and fasting”. Bible study sessions, yearly spiritual retreats, and Engaging youth programs to build my personal and intellectual being. This program encouraged me to appreciate a diverse approach to faith and religion. 1. Theological Exploration How My Faith Community Has Formed Me for the Better Being part of this community has shaped me profoundly. It has taught me the importance of spiritual discipline, encouraging me to develop regular prayer habits, Bible study, and reflection. Through small groups and accountability partners, I’ve learned the value of vulnerability and honesty in relationships, recognizing that growth often comes through shared struggles and mutual encouragement. Moreover, my church’s commitment to social justice and service has opened my eyes to the broader implications of the Gospel. I’ve been challenged to see faith as a personal journey and a call to engage with the world, advocating for the marginalized and working for the common good. This has instilled a sense of purpose and responsibility, urging me to live out my faith in tangible ways. 1. Meaningful Relationships 2. Worship and Liturgy 3. Scriptural Engagement Conclusion: A Home in Faith Looking back, I see how my faith community has been instrumental in shaping who I am today. It has provided me with a spiritual foundation, a supportive network, and a vision for how to live out my faith in the world. This community is more than just a place of worship; it is a home where my faith continues to grow, deepen, and be lived out in service to others. Your spiritual understanding is likely the result of a combination of these factors, each playing a role in shaping your faith and connection to your community. These elements work together to create a dynamic and growing relationship with God, supported and enriched by your community.